It is a strange reality to be faced with a chronic illness diagnosis.
But here is what I have decided.
On days where I am able, I am going to keep on living.
So yes I will go camping, hiking, play with my kids, sell our house, build a new one, and take advantage of every second I can because there are too many days where I can't get out of bed.
It may mean that I have to take a 2 hour nap after the hike, or I may have to pace myself with activities and rest a whole lot more but it's worth it.
I had the PFO heart closure procedure done a few weeks ago. Everything went so well. And recovery has been better than I thought. My heart rate which was hanging out in the low 50's is now up in the 70's. The docs said to give it 6 weeks to totally heal and then 6 months to be totally covered with scar tissue and essentially seal the hole. The only down side has been having to take plavix and aspirin so I look like a bruised banana. I tried to go off the headache preventative medication and started having the intense nonstop migraines again. So I went back on it for now.
I am waiting to hear back from my headache specialist because they found cysts all down my spinal column. He thinks that my spinal fluid is leaking into those cysts causing the pressure on the spinal fluid to be low thus causing my brain to sag into my spinal column. There is a procedure called a blood patch that is pretty painful but could fix the leak. I'm waiting to see when that gets scheduled. This could be a big part of the migraines...I've said that before right?
As always there is no easy answer for any of this. So I'm taking it a day at a time. A dear friend of mine gave me such an encouraging gift recently. It said "God is within her she shall not be moved." The idea being God is in our midst in the middle of whatever circumstance. He is not some
vague onlooker, but instead there enduring it with us. In the midst of debilitating pain he is there, in all our joy, he is there caring for us, comforting us. Despite the pain of this world He has us in his grasp. I found comfort in being reminded of that. And while these circumstances have threatened to make me crumble I have not been crushed.
Let's be honest, Most days I could use a major attitude adjustment. I am so thankful for my husband who jokes and laughs and makes things lighthearted even when it's terrible. He has been a constant support and partner through all of this. Never giving up on me and never letting me give up either. He has been steadfast in caring for me and our children. He has been patient beyond belief. While all of this has been so taxing on our whole family I have found that it hasn't driven a wedge where there could easily be one. We have wethered our fair share of storms and this is just one more that we will make it through together one step at a time.
So here's to living, and camping, and playing, and not taking sweet moments forgranted.
But here is what I have decided.
On days where I am able, I am going to keep on living.
So yes I will go camping, hiking, play with my kids, sell our house, build a new one, and take advantage of every second I can because there are too many days where I can't get out of bed.
It may mean that I have to take a 2 hour nap after the hike, or I may have to pace myself with activities and rest a whole lot more but it's worth it.
I had the PFO heart closure procedure done a few weeks ago. Everything went so well. And recovery has been better than I thought. My heart rate which was hanging out in the low 50's is now up in the 70's. The docs said to give it 6 weeks to totally heal and then 6 months to be totally covered with scar tissue and essentially seal the hole. The only down side has been having to take plavix and aspirin so I look like a bruised banana. I tried to go off the headache preventative medication and started having the intense nonstop migraines again. So I went back on it for now.
I am waiting to hear back from my headache specialist because they found cysts all down my spinal column. He thinks that my spinal fluid is leaking into those cysts causing the pressure on the spinal fluid to be low thus causing my brain to sag into my spinal column. There is a procedure called a blood patch that is pretty painful but could fix the leak. I'm waiting to see when that gets scheduled. This could be a big part of the migraines...I've said that before right?
As always there is no easy answer for any of this. So I'm taking it a day at a time. A dear friend of mine gave me such an encouraging gift recently. It said "God is within her she shall not be moved." The idea being God is in our midst in the middle of whatever circumstance. He is not some
vague onlooker, but instead there enduring it with us. In the midst of debilitating pain he is there, in all our joy, he is there caring for us, comforting us. Despite the pain of this world He has us in his grasp. I found comfort in being reminded of that. And while these circumstances have threatened to make me crumble I have not been crushed.
Let's be honest, Most days I could use a major attitude adjustment. I am so thankful for my husband who jokes and laughs and makes things lighthearted even when it's terrible. He has been a constant support and partner through all of this. Never giving up on me and never letting me give up either. He has been steadfast in caring for me and our children. He has been patient beyond belief. While all of this has been so taxing on our whole family I have found that it hasn't driven a wedge where there could easily be one. We have wethered our fair share of storms and this is just one more that we will make it through together one step at a time.
So here's to living, and camping, and playing, and not taking sweet moments forgranted.
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